‘B’days are occasions ,just to remind that I’m getting older ‘ This is the view ,i had for B’days once I jumped out of my childhood days and magic date feb 12 (obviously my B’day) never seem to interest me anymore .it is just a occasion for wearing new dresses , but this impression broke as my life moved on . in hostels , we were used to celebrate the b’days as a grand event . it started as place ,where we friends mingled as group ,started looking outside our ROOM ,and introduced to new people who eased into our lives as friends . Hostel B’days have 12′0 clock cake cutting ceremonies , back breaking slaps with lights switched off ,bed sheets all over on you
,playing hide and seek to escape cakes being pasted upon our face, buckets of water being spilled upon you and last but not least photo session ( I liked this part ,very much)
. another interesting part is waiting for people to wish you @ midnight
. whenever I think of B’days , feb 12 ‘08 is a special one.. that is my last one in my collage life and we celebrated both in hostel and my class room . it came within the last one month of our college life , so it had more emotional attachment to it
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the period in between the feb 12′08 to feb 12′09 would easily be the most *happening* period of my life time , I slowly translated from college student to a vetti guy (nearly spend half an year in that) then I’m slowly building my professional career. But then this year , I know that my family members wouldn’t be around as in my school days , i know that a good chuck or most part of friends who were greeting wouldn’t be near you and surely I miss numerous hand shacks I had before but then one of the things that make life beautiful is , unexpected turns and twists it brings to you
. it is great that new friends have stormed(?) to your life so soon than u hope and gave u a ray of hope on life . It would always feel great to hear old friends(sometimes ,even across from across the Atlantic ocean) , especially their parents and someone’s whom you don expect to wish , wish u ‘Happy B’day ‘. But with *this* type of B’days , u tend to expect more. and with expectations sky high tend to get disappointments and it is part of the parcel , I’m used to move on ,with the disappointments
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PS :my colleagues/friends poured with gifts I had a good number of wardrobes and 8 books.. I’m looking forward to read that books as soon as possible and return back my comments , but travelling nearer to 3 hours per day in public transport make things harder for me
March 27, 2009 at 7:49 pm
You are a lucky dude
i didnt even get a single gift not even the one i usually get
:’( .
April 14, 2009 at 4:04 am
who’s is the one across atlantic ocean???
April 15, 2009 at 11:58 am
@ashok : thanks man.. but nee than wish panalayae
..
April 15, 2009 at 12:02 pm
@annamalai : that guy is very famous @ india for his achievements in the field of _______
. he is doing a masters in that field
. enna field , guesses invited
.
clue : His fav number is 7
April 15, 2009 at 12:30 pm
@vins hmmm i was not pretty sure it mattered that much may be i need a birthday calendar .
. May be if u guys have a opensource birthday calendar which can be exported in xml it will help .
High on my activity list
April 15, 2009 at 4:31 pm
i too looking for such calenders and any address book .
May 3, 2009 at 7:23 pm
“expectations sky high tend to get disappointments and it is part of the parcel”–You are r8!!But with that disappointment..it will be fine if you accept that the other end which made you to get disappoint is the one always remembers you;);)(if that end is ur true friend
)